when the time comes for me to have another i think i will keep the sex a secret this time, i didnt find out with eliza - we werent given the choice - but i found out with charlie, and as i have a boy and a girl it wouldnt really matter what i had - i have hand downs for both you see lol!!! i would like my next to be a surprise - but also thats because i am guaranteed to have a c section, and finding out the sex myself would add something a bit special to the birth, if you know what i mean!!
cant believe you are that far gone already!!!! baby will be here in no time!!!!