FAO EMZ08

Hows your pregnancy going hun?

sorry i havent been around much
not good news at the moment i started bleeding on monday was told by midwife to go through casualty as iys only a small community hosp they basically told me everything was ok and i had a urine infection
yesterday i got a call to go to scunthorpe ratly pregnancy unit - went down had bloods done scan showed i was only 5 weeks 6 days and they couldnt find a heart beat - theu really worried me basically telling me that was it and i would prob bleed it out, also had to had anti d as my blood negative which i arent happy goole never told me that as it can cause problems in this and future pregnancies.
Anyway i have been given another scan appointment for two weeks time so am hoping for some improvement - spent most of yesterday upset although dont think it will settle in until i find out for definate as i am still holding onto that slight hope.
Also today i have read a lot on internet of other people not hearing a heartbeat until 8 weeks and then still having a healthy baby - i now dont know what to think, but am really pissed off that they have told me this is basically ot and then i have to wait 2 weeks to find anything

so fingers crossed but i arent holding out much hope
take care Emma x

Yeah hun I wouldnt worry too much, 5 weeks is rather early to detect a heartbeat.

I'm also resus neg and I know that it is quite dangerous to have another baby, I never had anti D with Sophie but so far all my bloods that i've had to see if I have any anti bodies in my blood have been zero so thats a good sign, but i'm having it when i'm 28 weeks!

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you Emma xxx

Thank you i think it wioll be out by end of today though i am still bleeding and am having real bad pains - i think these may be contractions.

its horrible having negative blood - its always meant more problems and blood tests for me

Big hugs hunnie, ive still got my fingers crossed for you xx